Sunday, March 2, 2014

"Fun"draisers coming up!

Lots happening over here...
First off, the preparation for the dodgeball tournament is in full force.  We have finalized a date and location:

SAVE THE DATE!!!!!
Saturday April 26th
9:00 - 1:00 pm
Northern Nevada Juniors Volleyball
1575 Linda Way
Sparks, NV  89431
More info to come, however be sure to get your teams together, costumes together, and balls together!




SAVE THE DATE!!!!!
Saturday May 10th

Secondly, our dearest friend and supporter is rallying for a Mothers Day Weekend fundraiser in honor of Lila.  Save this date as well, and bring your girlfriends, mothers, aunts, and sisters for a fun afternoon of Bunco and lunch!  More detailed info to come.



Thursday, February 13, 2014

fun filled February

It has been great to be back home from therapy, and we have had fun together since our return.  Last Friday the girls and I made Valentine's Day cookies to give out to their friends at church on Sunday, and made a special heart note to give to their Daddy when he got home from work.  He was so excited and felt so loved (as a lot of times when he comes home, the girls are crabby and have just woken up from naps).  Wish I had taken a picture of that, but slipped my mind.  Nora wrote, "Happy Day to you Daddy!".  So great!


Then on Saturday, Matt took the girls to the Children's Museum while I worked all day.  They played for a few hours at the children's museum, and a couple of Nora's friends were there too!  Lila and Nora love the children's museum, and always make time for climbing in the clouds, as well as painting on the glass wall :-)

This weekend we have swimming lessons on Saturday morning, which they are always looking forward to, a birthday party on Saturday afternoon, and church on Sunday.  Full weekend of fun and excitement once again.  Matt and I have decided not to go out for Valentine's day, but stay in and watch a new movie with the girls.  We will enjoy a family Valentine's Day, and maybe he and I will grab dinner together on Saturday night.  We just really love spending time with the girls, and it doesn't seem to happen enough, so we best cherish it while we can :-)

More big news of February...Lila lost her first tooth!!!!  I am sure most of you have thought that she lost her
two front teeth a long time ago, but that did not happen by itself.  We had to have both of those removed.  One because she kept losing her balance while crawling, chipping the tooth further and further down until the nerve was hit.  The other because her and I were playing in her bed and she jerked her head, hitting the headboard and basically knocking the tooth out (the dentist just did the final pull).  So, this tooth that fell out was from the natural progression of any little girls maturing little mouth :-)  So much fun!  She was terrified at what would happen, how it would feel, and where it would go.  So, the first night we realized that it was loose, she said to me, "Mommy...", I said, "Yes Lila"...., she responded,"So, when my abdomen falls out...".  I was laughing so hard at that point that she could not even finish her sentence.  Really have no idea where she was headed, but it was so cute that she was thinking about the loose tooth in such an abstract way :-)

Hope you all have had a wonderful February as well!!!!

Thursday, January 16, 2014

Last day of therapy

Lila has done great this week at therapy!  When we arrived three weeks ago, Lila had taken three (or so) independent steps at home and therapy in Reno.  Since working hard for three weeks, she is taking 7 consistent steps, and now we have the tools to work with her at home every week in her pursuit of walking independently.  She is very motivated and excited to have acquired these new skills.

One issue with her not taking more steps is that her balance isn't quite there in terms of walking independently all of the time.  This is something that is learned behavior for her, and likely will take more time.  As her brain matures, these skills will make more sense to her.  We also hope that her next stem cell treatment will help heal those "damaged neurons" that are in the way of her motivation :-)



Anyway, she has enjoyed her time here in LA.  The Polish team at
Polfit calls her "Lalonia", beautiful little doll, because she keeps them smiling and laughing all day long.  Lila loves the team here, and they take to her more and more each time we come.

Three week therapy

Lila began a 3-week intensive therapy program on December 30th, and will end this coming Friday.  It has been amazing and eventful all in the past two weeks.

Matt and Nora were here in LA with us for the first week.  This provides for a lot of juggling with the two kids, and a lot less sleep for Lila.  Although, this was the first trip that they actually slept in the same space and did not bother each other like in the past.  I would say it was quite successful overall, but Lila has been much more relaxed since Nora went home.  I don't possess as much energy as Nora, of which Lila feels like she has to keep up with :-)

Prior to therapy, Lila had taken three or four independent steps.  This was not very consistent, but sure made her motivated and excited.  Since we came to LA,  Lila has taken 6-8 independent steps!  She was extremely happy with herself and ready to do more work on Friday last week.  Nevertheless, it turns out her therapist gave her a pretzel very near the end of her first session, and we nearly ended up in the ER.  Just when I think she is in a safe environment, and everyone knows about her severe allergies, I am reminded about how close I need to watch her every move.
This is very difficult for me because there has been much judgement passed in my direction with how closely I have to watch my kids.  Even if I stress the severity of her allergies, this means different things to different people.  Some don't believe me that she will end up in the ER from just eating a pretzel, or a piece of cheese...well rewind to Friday.  I wasn't right next to her during this therapy session, and the therapist apparently thought it was no big deal.  One pretzel for Lila means anaphylactic shock.  So, we promptly left therapy, headed to Urgent Care (or I like to call it, "not so urgent care" which didn't have an epipen anywhere!!!), and then were on our way to the ER with very labored breathing, hives all over her face, swollen itchy eyes, and tons of sneezing, when Lila vomited up the "poison" all over the parking lot.  There was still a bit of swelling, but her breathing went back to normal so fast.  Her and I stopped, waited for a few minutes to see how she was doing, and decided to go back to the hotel room and take a bath.  She felt much better, and we took a homeopathic remedy once returning, which took the rest of the swelling down, what was left of the rash and altered her breathing within minutes.  It was crazy!  After a long nap, she was finally back to herself.  That all being said, there was no therapy on Friday :-(

I hope there are other parents out there that are educating their families and support systems about allergies, and helping people to understand how to care for our kids.  I am sorry to go on these rants, but it seems that the most hurtful and judgmental comments have come from the people that should understand the most.  If anyone has any ideas for educating our families and support systems, please share :-)

So, we are back to therapy this week, and Lila has recovered from her episode last week.  She is ready to go and very happy to be here!

Sunday, January 12, 2014

Barber Holidays

I know this is a little overdue, although I do have an excuse...we left the day after Christmas to come to LA for a three week therapy session:-)  A lot has happened since the Holidays...whew.

I would like to share these photos, but don't have a ton of time to write, so I will make this short.


A few days before Christmas, the girls had their pajamas on and we said, "let's get in the car and go look at Christmas lights"!  Nora said, "In the car?  With our pajamas on?  In the dark?"  She couldn't believe we would do such a crazy thing!  They had so much fun that they didn't want to go home!

The day before we left for LA, Lila and I were at the bank depositing funds that were so kindly raised for her from the Goddard School (Denise and Holly held an amazing week of fundraisers and raised over $3000 for Lila's therapy session!!!  We can't thank them enough!).  As I was filling out the deposit slip, Lila began talking to this man next to us.  I finished up and got in line, while she completed her conversation.  As we were leaving the bank, this man had stuck around and was asking me a lot of questions about Lila (which I love, by the way...I would like to educate people about her, rather than address uncomfortable stares :-)).  He then asked what she wanted for Christmas, so she told him, and as he was just about to walk away, he said, "I don't want to offend you but please take this and get her whatever she wants for Christmas", handing me $100!  WHAT????  I was shocked; You cold tell that there was something pulling him to do this, and he wasn't going to take it back.  I tried, but he felt compelled.  So, as we are trying to simplify and purge items in our house, we decided to use it in offering her a new experience.  Lila got to go to an amusement park for the first time ever!  She had a blast!  We took the girls to Knotts Berry Farm the weekend before she started therapy...see below....







The first day of therapy was great, as we walked in to find these two families that we have spent time with in the past, of whom we love and enjoy spending time with.  This week of therapy was the week of New Years, so we shared time with all of them on New Years Eve.  Sure was a pleasure, and the girls were able to spend time with Bridget's little girl, Sarah.  She kindly shared her handheld electronic devices, and our kids were in heaven :-)


 Happy New Year!!!!




Wednesday, December 11, 2013

Enjoying the Holidays

 It has been a fun Holiday Season for us all here at the Barber household, as the girls are really getting in the spirit this year!  Macy's has a Santa Mail Box that goes directly to the North Pole (believe it or not!), and for every postcard they receive, they will donate $1 to the Make-a-wish foundation :-)

So, one Saturday morning we filled out our postcards, and made a trip to the mailbox the next morning.  The girls had so many questions about Santa, the postcard, the elves, and more.  Nora's wheels are really turning on this one :-)  To the left is Nora's card to Santa..."Merry Christmas, I would like a baby with a binky, please.  Nora".  As you can see, she got tired of writing, so we used the printer machine to complete the card :-)















Same for Lila, she writes..."I would like Paper Moon bag, Lila, Love, Lila, sit (just because she wanted to type in the word sit)"..hahah!  So, there is a store in Reno called Paper Moon, and she would just not change her mind that she wanted a Paper Moon bag and a cookie in it.  Love this Kid!  Could it be any easier :-)


 This weekend my Mom is coming to town to visit the girls before Christmas, and we are looking forward to a fun and relaxing weekend.  Saturday we will host the CP support group meeting and Santa will be joining us!!!!  The kids will be so excited and surprised :-)

Yesterday Lila was able to go shopping at school to buy something for Nora, Matt and I for Christmas.  She came home with money still left in her bag and only a gift for Nora...hahahah!  It is fun to see her care for her sister, as this affection is not always shown on a daily basis.

We also talked about giving money for Lila's angel tree at school, to help a local Verdi family this Christmas.  The girls told me how much they wanted to give (with a few choices) and Lila took that to school yesterday.  Matt and I were also talking about taking them to the store to buy food for the homeless on the streets.  Then taking the girls to hand it out and show them the gift of giving, teaching them that giving is so much more powerful than receiving!

We hope you all are enjoying your Holidays as much as we are, and Santa is getting all of his "toy making" done :-)

Stay warm, share hugs, and GIVE back!




Saturday, November 30, 2013

Black Friday Support!

Thank you all for your Black Friday support!  We raised $391.40 for Lila, while providing you all with unique, handmade Christmas gifts!  Thank you so very much, as we are headed toward our goal of offering Lila her next stem cell treatment in Spring of 2014 :-)

Happy holidays!